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There are events in which the people are very close and strangers rejoice together, celebrate, talk or lie in the arms.
We can observe this as at major sports events (eg the World Cup) and also in this year's Grand Prix. People rejoice together a success for their team or for Germany and in their joy they smile at the completely unknown neighbors, enjoy talking with him, quite without prejudice, with him are relaxed and happy.
Here I would say, act it out her heart out.
sit just one day, as the people on the train on the way to the office to make a closed face, look more to the ground as their neighbors in the eyes of hedgehogs, with their (usually to loud) mp3 player or behind a book one, as they did not want to be addressed and not participating in what is happening around them but just to have their rest. And they dive into another world.
Or they talk to their friends and colleagues about other "Have you seen him? But he is ...".
Why, these are still the same people as the day before? Since they were very happy together with many other and different people had a common Theme or goal. But this does not seem long.
I am happy if there are people who are attentive, and remarkable look at the other, help with problems or sometimes loving others smile or nod, as if someone sits down opposite them out.
And sometimes results in a nice conversation, only because I have seen my opponent in the eyes and smiled at him. Sometimes it returns a smile and it feels good.
So maybe just try. Eyes, other people see and be nice.
